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Pet Parents Sue for Lack of Communication In the Veterinary Clinic

Dr. Marty Becker just posted this article on his FaceBook page,... I found it incredibly compelling and wanted to share it with you - as this article should be reproduced and carried in your briefcase.  Drop this off at ALL of your clinics for supporting information on WHY it's so important to not only communicate clearly with families on their medical plan - but also when it comes to their final death care arrangements.  The time is now to "kick it up a notch" for your educational efforts with the clinics on proper death care processes. 

Here's the article in it's entirety, taken from the website http://www.myevt.com/columns/sticks-and-stones-may-break-your-bones-word...

Sticks and Stones May Break Your Bones, But Words Can Cost Your License

 
A 10-year-old Yorkie died unexpectedly after receiving the third mitotane (Lysodren, drugs.com/pro/lysodren.html) tablet you dispensed to treat her Cushing’s disease. You know that either you or your room technician told the client about the possible risks and complications of this treatment because “someone always does.”

Now you are being investigated by the state veterinary medical board, your license is at stake, and Ms. Loveherpet is threatening a lawsuit for $100,000 in damages for emotional distress for the loss of her best friend “Gigi.”

Even worse, she’s threatening to trash your practice by starting a website to determine how many other pets you have “killed.” You couldn’t sleep last night because all you could think about were the 14 years of your life you’ve spent building a practice that is now at risk because of a simple breakdown in communication.

According to Laura Downes, executive director of the Maryland State Board of Veterinary Medicine, unprofessional conduct lawsuits often boil down to charges of negligence or issues with communication. She says, “It is not uncommon for investigations to indicate that the standards of medical care have been met but documentation of the communications by the veterinary team was inadequate. If the pet’s condition deteriorates or the pet dies while under veterinary care, clients often assume that substandard care was provided. Excellent communication at the beginning and throughout treatment can assuage misunderstandings later should the pet not respond favorably to treatment.” Complaints from clients can result in hefty fines, mandatory continuing education, and even license suspension.

Facing the Facts
Many veterinarians will face situations like this at some point in their careers. Downes estimates that 75% to 80% of client complaints to state boards are the result of breakdowns in communication. Poor listening skills are cited in a large percentage of medical negligence cases as one of the main reasons why individuals take legal action against health care professionals.1

One of the main issues in these cases stems from obtaining educated owner consents. Without discussing diseases in lay person’s terms and documenting communications in patients’ records, clients can easily come back and say, “I didn’t realize this procedure required so many follow-up visits and care or had so many possible adverse effects, or I never would have agreed to it.” For this reason, the use of clear communications as well as written, signed consent forms that educate clients about the course of treatment and risks associated with various procedures helps minimize communication errors and omissions.

See the Informed Consent Form

What’s worse is that these facts may not change any time soon. Only 6 of the 26 veterinary schools researched for this article list a specific communications course in their curriculum, either as a required class or an elective.2 Some schools, like Washington State, Wisconsin, and Minnesota, require multiple courses that are specifically focused on communications throughout the 4-year program.2 Many others have some coverage of this important skill scattered throughout the curriculum.2 Still, the community of veterinary schools as a whole is not doing enough to provide veterinary students with sufficient client communications training.3,4

Common Mistakes
Typical communication mistakes veterinarians make include the following:

1. Assuming that other team members provide accurate and relevant information to clients without providing them with detailed scripts, question lists, educational consent forms, and/or operational instructions to use for key client interactions.
2. Assuming that clients understand what is being explained just because they are nodding along or saying “yes” or “uh-huh.”
3. Using closed and/or leading questions that suggest certain answers without allowing clients to expand on them.1 While closed questions make it easier to control the discussion, they can make clients feel intimidated or threatened; open-ended questions allow clients to describe their experiences, feelings, and understanding of the subject under discussion.1
4. Assuming that clients do not have the resources or are not willing to pay for what’s best for the patient and failing to explain why that course is the best option.5
5. Failing to use legal consent forms and discuss the issues they contain.6

Communication Strategy
There are many things you can do to ensure that you or your associates never face state board complaints, investigations, and/or disciplinary actions as a result of simple communication errors.

Use the term “medical care plan” instead of “estimate” to focus on courses of action for patient care. This semantically different term emphasizes the diagnostic and treatment part of the plan and diminishes the focus on money.

When possible, stand side-by-side with clients as you educate them, using “show and tell” models, images, or handouts. Encourage them to stop you for clarification and ask questions as you are explaining procedures or as they read the consent forms they are signing. When clients hesitate to sign consents, say, “Please be sure to tell me about any concerns you may have.” The side-by-side posture decreases the image that you are using confrontational communication techniques and, instead, illustrates rapport-building communication.

As much as is practicable, document all forms of communication in the medical record, including in-person educational discussions, phone conversations, and emails. Recording modestly detailed notes during and after these conversations allows you to refer back to them later, when time has faded your accurate recall of events. Detailed records ensure that you and your staff look and are “smart”; incomplete records make all of you appear careless. Remember that documenting courses of action that were recommended and deferred or refused is just as important as documenting the risks and adverse effects of procedures that may have been accepted.

Learn to use personality assessments such as Myers-Briggs (myersbriggs.org) or DISC (discprofile.com) to help staff understand their communication styles. Practice communicating with clients and staff who have different personality types to better understand how to be more effective.

Do your best to assure that someone on your team can speak Spanish or at least communicate in this language using medical terminology. According to the 2009 U.S. Census Bureau, 12% of the population is Spanish-speaking—and that number is only expected to increase.7 Keep an English/Spanish medical dictionary in your clinic and hang posters in or around the exam rooms with translations for common phrases and terms used in veterinary exams. Don’t let language be a barrier between you and your clients!

Invest in books that teach communication skills. Handbook of Veterinary Communication Skills by Carol Gray and Jenny Moffett, Getting Past No by William Ury, and Legal Consents for Veterinary Practices, ed 4, by James F. Wilson are good resources.

Communication regarding medical subject matter is a skill that is developed over a lifetime of effort and experience. You can educate yourself and your team regarding the most common mistakes and how to avoid them. Fundamentally, if we communicate well, then our clients will be happier, our patients will get well quicker, and we will all enjoy our jobs more.1 | EVT 


References

1. Handbook of Veterinary Communication Skills. Gray C, Moffet J.—Ames, IA: Blackwell Publishing, 2010; pp 15-26.
2. Research performed by Christina Moore referencing web-based course content for all U.S. veterinary school curricula, 2011.
3. The KPMG study: The current and future market for veterinarians and veterinary medical services in the United States. Brown J, Silverman J. JAVMA 2:161-183. 1999.
4. NAVMEC Report, final draft. aavmc.org/veterinary-educators/navmec.aspx.
5. Law and Ethics of the Veterinary Profession. Wilson JF, et al—Yardley, PA: Priority Press, 1989, p 112.
6. Legal Consents for Veterinary Practices, 4th ed. Wilson JF—Yardley, PA: Priority Press, 2006, pp 4-7.
7. Language spoken at home: 2005–2009 American community survey. U.S. Census Bureau; factfinder.census.gov.

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Do you want to take an active part in the upcoming convention?

Happy New Year, Fellow PLPA Members!  I trust 2010 ended successfully for all of you and that you and your organization is poised for a very exciting 2011! 

The year ended on an exciting note for the PLPA group.  In an end-of-the-year meeting held with the committee chairs, incredible progress has been made on the projects lined out for the association at the 2010 conference.  By the time of the 2011 gathering, I'm sure that you will, too, be excited about the amazing progress that's occurred during these short months.

As we continue to finalize plans for the upcoming conference in Las Vegas in March, I come to you with the following requests:

  • Are you a pet funeral home/pet memorialization company who's business relies mainly on being a resource to veterinarians, with the majority of your marketing efforts being done directly to pet parents?  If so, we are looking for individuals to participate in a discussion panel at the convention.  For more information on the description of this session, view the website at www.iccfaconvention.com.  Please let me know by Friday, January 7, 2011, if you are interested in participating on this panel.
  • Would you like to get more active on one of the committees within the PLPA?  The current committees are - Standards and Ethics Committee, Education Committee, Supplier Committee, and the Marketing Committee.  Drop me an email at Coleen@TwoHeartsPetLossCenter.com with your request on WHERE you'd like to have a more active role!  Remember, the PLPA is YOUR association - we can only be successful with YOU, the member, being active and the voice of our association.

Thanks, to all of you for a wonderful beginning to the PLPA!  As we complete our first year, the success of our very young association has been nothing less than encouraging and exciting.  Here's to our second year with more growth and progress!

Bill and I look forward to seeing all of you in Las Vegas!  If you haven't made your reservations, I encourage you to get those in for this amazing convention!

See you in March!

 

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A Happy Holidays to All!

Hello to All PLPA Members!  And a Happy Holidays to you!  I don't know where the time has gone in 2009 - but here we are at the brink of seeing Father Time running even faster and faster!  Wow! 

It seems like only yesterday that discussions began with Joe and Linda on the PLPA,... now we see our inaugral conference staring at us - only around the corner.  It's truly going to be an incredible event in San Antonio and I'm anxious to physically meet all of you there.  Get your registerations in and hotel reservations made - these fabulous conferences fill up quickly!

And, so, as the holidays are upon us, my wish to all of you is for safe travels and blessings for the season.  Here's to 2010 and an exciting year for all of us whose mission lie in the area of respectful and dignified pet death care services.  

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PLPA Continues to Grow!

Hello Fellow PLPA Members!  The PLPA just launched a major membership campaign to notify everyone in the pet death care profession of our wonderful organization!  A mailer has just been sent to every pet loss organization in the United States to let them know about the association - and to promote membership!  For those of you who have colleagues in the industry - spread the word to others so that this awesome group of professionals can continue to grow!  Thanks for your help and support!

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Dr. Jane Shaw to Address The PLPA Members!

Hello Fellow PLPA Members!  Here on a Monday - another exciting update to report on the PLPA conference in San Antonio!  Dr. Jane Shaw from the Argus Institute at Colorado State University will be presenting to the PLPA members with some very enlightening and educational information!  This will certainly be a meeting that every pet loss professional will want to be a part of!  Make sure to get your reservations in - and if you know of any other pet loss business that we should reach out to for membership and attendance, please let us know!

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Poul Lemasters to Address The PLPA!

Hello Fellow PLPA Members!  As your committee chair - I am so excited to announce that Poul Lemasters will be speaking at our upcoming conference in SanAntonio!  An attorney and funeral director by trade - Poul has been instrumental in the ICCFA organization as a guide in the maze of legal issues!  His educational session will certainly be THE information that you will want in your pet death care operation.  Stay tuned for many more details and announcements!

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NFDA In Boston

Hello Fellow PLPA Members.  Just a note to let you know that Joe Budzinski and myself will be attending the NFDA conference in Boston.  Should you know of someone who is interested in joining the PLPA and has some questions, please have them come by the ICCFA booth.  Our membership drive is on!

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PLPA Member Hits The News!

A new PLPA member recently hit the news in their local community!  Congratulations Vandemore Pet Cremations for the awesome press you received on your new services!  Read all about their business opening!  www.geneseorepublic.com/news/x927266317/Vandemore-now-offering-pet-cremations

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PLPA Rocks On!

Hello Fellow PLPA Members!  The past few weeks have been exhilirating for the PLPA!  Every day seems to bring new comments, interest, members and wonderful updates!  Thanks to all of you for spreading the word with your colleagues on the benefits of this association - keep the "buzz" marketing going!

We continue to have new developments for the upcoming conference in San Antonio!  We are in the process of finalizing a presentation from a very well-reknowned veterinarian.  She will be sharing with us her comments and feedback on what veterinarians are looking for in their pet death care provider and how to approach these process partners.  This piece coupled with other wonderful learning sessions on grief education, "thinking out of the box" pet death care business ideas and many other sessions are still lining up.  It will truly be an information-filled few days!  If you have not got your reservation in for this session, I would get it in today.

As always, the PLPA is here for you. If you have any ideas for the organization that we need to put up for discussion or consideration, please forward them.  This type of open communication and information exchange is what the PLPA needs and the format that will truly make this association be a resource for all serving the pet death care industry. 

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PLPA Excitement Continues

Hello Fellow PLPA members,…

Whew! There is so much going on within PLPA and behind the scenes in anticipation of our upcoming “official” rollout at the San Antonio conference in March! In the spirit of communication, and as your committee chair – I am going to make a commitment to send out weekly updates to everyone. Updates to keep you advised of the progress the team is making – as well as information to keep the excitement going for this dynamic group!

There has been much work on the agenda for the conference in March; however, we are still looking for presenters. Presenters that have a unique business story to tell and that are willing to share their successful techniques with the attendees. Please let us know if you would like to present during one of the 50 (fifty) minute sessions. We will consider all applicants and then get back with those selected. If you are interested in presenting, please send your information to Linda Budzinski at lindab@iccfa.com by Monday, October 5th. The information to send should be:

Your name
Your company
Contact Information
Content Topic

Many exciting topics already grace the agenda for the conference. Topics such as:

Sales and marketing information on how to tell your story in your community - to the veterinarians as well as your other target markets.

What is important to veterinarians in the area of pet death care services? Executives from the AVMA and AAHA have been invited to share their stories and needs with our group!

What are other value-added services can you offer at your organization to clearly set you apart from others?

Here in the next few weeks I will have a report for you on the work that our committee chair, Bill Remkus, has in regards to standardization within the industry. Stay tuned for more exciting updates! And, thanks for your support of PLPA!

Pet Funerals, Cremation & Memoralization

Date Published: 
May, 2006
Original Author: 
Jerry Sullivan, Cremation Society of Illinois, Inc., Forest Park, Illinois
Steven Schaal, Matthews Cremation Division, Apopka, Florida

There were 2.5 million deaths estimated in the United States for 2005. The figures actually came in lower, at 2.3 million. Projected pet deaths were 20 million. So, on the one hand, you've got 2.5 million human deaths, and you've got 20 million pet deaths.

I assumed pets were Tabby the cat and Barfy the dog. Oh, no. We have one woman, affectionately nicknamed The Rat Lady, who has 35 pet rats in her house. And this is a personal business, folks. "I'm coming to you to take care of my mother because I know you." Rat Lady will only deal with my sister; won't deal with me. "Where's Jean?" "Jean's out of town." "I'll wait." This is what you have—they want personal service now.

We have not been in the pet business that long, and I've had more requests for pet (diamond) LifeGems than human LifeGems—and we serve 2,300 families a year.

We've done research, talking to consumers about their experiences in funeral service, and it's amazing. We have 190 hours of video footage and it's amazing to see that not one tear was shed when they talked about the loss of a mom or dad or brother or sister, but the minute we transitioned into the discussion of the loss of a pet, the tears begin to flow.

I've been in the business 17 years, and I never would have thought I'd see something like that, where people are crying because of the unresolved grief associated with the loss of a family pet.

When you talk to funeral professionals about the idea of bringing pet loss into the equation, they immediately lift their hands and say, "I serve humans." And when you talk to veterinarians, ask them, "How about pet loss service?" they put their hands up and say, "I symbolize life." So we have a consumer who's stuck in the middle.

This is interesting: There are over 50 funeral homes in the greater Orlando, Florida area, but in this magazine for animal lovers, only two death service providers are listed for pets and they only identify themselves as cremationists, not even as pet memorial care. Their service is about disposition only.

 

This article compiled from an address presented by the authors at the 2006 ICFA Annual Convention

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